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1300 Northern Blvd
Manhasset NY 11030
Phone: 516-627-0385
Fax: 516-627-6070 |
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| Sacrament of Marriage taken place at Saint
Mary's Church in the year 1949. |
Marriage
When a man and a woman fall in love, they may
decide to share their lives with one another for all eternity. If they so
choose, they seal their bond before God in the Sacrament of Marriage. The
nature of this Sacrament is found in the free will of the man and woman who,
when they exchange their vows in the proper way, are no longer two but one.
The bond created is indissoluble and permanent for all eternity. Therefore,
the Church teaches that couples should not live together or engage in sexual
activity until this bond is established.
Those seeking the Sacrament of Marriage should contact the parish office as
soon as possible after becoming engaged to arrange a meeting with one of the
parish priests. A wedding date cannot be secured before this meeting takes
place. Please note, it is essential that the couple secure a date with the
parish before signing a contract for the reception. The Sacrament of
Marriage should be celebrated in the Bride's parish.
Every couple must meet with a priest or deacon at least six months before
the wedding can take place. The various prerequisites for Marriage, such as
Pre-Cana, will be explained by the priest or deacon. If there are any
questions or concerns with regard to this sacrament, it is best to speak to
one of the priests who can assist in this area.
Because the Church believes marriage is a permanent state, we ask that every
married couple take this vocation seriously. When problems arise, every
effort should be made to resolve differences. There are many organizations
and groups in the church that can assist couples who find themselves in
troubled situations. Even if a couple decides to break up, we believe the
bond created by God continues to exist. It is for this reason we ask couples
whose marriage has ended up in divorce to not remarry without an annulment.
Simply stated, the annulment process seeks to declare that the bond was not
a sacrament. If you need more information about annulments, please contact
the diocese.
Because the Church believes marriage is a permanent
state, we ask that every married couple take this vocation seriously. When
problems arise, every effort should be made to resolve differences. There
are many organizations and groups in the church that can assist couples who
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